Tag: Buddha

Buddha’s Wisdom

by desertspiritualcare, posted in Buddha, Fitness, Mindfulness

As some of you already know, I’ve been a fitness enthusiast all my life and I have also been a student of Buddhism for over 15 years. Please do not worry; this is not going to be an article on religion, what it is going to be is myself sharing with you two of Buddha’s wisdoms that can be applied to your fitness, health and everyday life. They are meant to inspire you and appreciate the preciousness of our human life and impermanence. I will begin with “precious human life.” Buddha reminds us that the gift of life is more precious than a wish filling gem or a million dollars. With this philosophy we should not take life for granted and cherish every day we have on this earth. There are also many ways we can take care of this precious gift both physically and mentally. Physically we can mindfully eat quality whole foods and eliminate the junk and processed food. Ok what are quality whole foods you ask? I am talking about eating 2 servings of organic fruits and vegetables with every meal. Staying away from white flour products, choose their healthy alternatives like lean proteins, whole grains, and vegetables. Secondly we need to exercise, not just walking, although it is better than nothing, I am talking about resistance training. Resistance training will build muscle and tone you, in addition to building bone. This doesn’t mean you have to train with heavy weights; you can use resistance tubing, light dumbbells, medicine balls and even a bag of rice. The key here is a little more of a “load” than what your body is used to; this will give the body more added stress to build back stronger. Lastly we need to get our mind right, this can be done through meditation. I recommend first thing in the morning to help set your intention for the day and have a clear focus. Find a quiet space, sit in a way that is comfortable, have your spine erect (shoulders over hips) and concentrate on your breath. Be mindful of your in and out breaths, if a thought comes to your mind, just “tag” it, give it a name, and go back to concentrating on your breath. There are many variations of meditation; there are many apps that have good guided meditations. I just walked you through a basic breathing one to get you started. Following the three points I just explained you will be on your way to preserving this gift of precious human life.

The second teaching I want to cover is on impermanence. In Buddhism impermanence is often taught with the subject of death. I know as westerners we are not comfortable talking about our own death, but please hear me out. Trust me, I was in the same boat, I thought it would jinx me or something. As I studied the topic it began to make more sense. There are two truths about death, one is we are going to die, and two we have no idea when that time will come. It could be tomorrow or many years from now. So realistically everyday could be your last. With that said, how would you act differently if you had a certain amount of time to live? Would you be nicer to family and people you met, would you let the little things upset you?  How about doing the work you really love and answering your true calling? Do you know your purpose? The Buddha’s teaching on impermanence isn’t meant to be morbid, but to inspire you to live your life to the fullest, be kind to your fellow man, not take things for granted and finally stop procrastinating.

In closing, I know what you are thinking, first he tells us how to preserve this human life and then he tells us we can die at any time. What I am hoping you get from this is inspiration to take care of the body you have and live the life you have always wanted. I will finish with a quote from the Buddha: “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth- not going all the way, and not starting.” Now go live YOUR life.

Understanding Suffering: A Buddhist Perspective

by desertspiritualcare, posted in Chaplaincy, Suffering

Suffering is one of the few experiences that unites every human being. Whether it comes through grief, illness, loneliness, anxiety, addiction, aging, or loss, suffering eventually touches every life. As a Buddhist, again and again, I have witnessed a simple truth: we can’t get around the fact that we will suffer, but there is a way to make sense of it, and even to heal.

In Buddhism, suffering is often described by the word dukkha. This term does not only mean physical pain or emotional hardship, it also points to the subtle dissatisfaction that can exist even when life appears outwardly successful. We long for permanence in a world that is constantly changing. We cling to what we love and resist what we fear. In doing so, we often create additional suffering within ourselves.

The Buddha’s teachings begin not with pessimism, but with honesty. The First Noble Truth acknowledges that suffering exists. This can sound discouraging at first, yet there is compassion embedded within this teaching. To recognize suffering is to stop pretending. It allows us to meet our humanity with openness rather than shame.

As a chaplain, I do not see suffering as punishment or failure. Many people believe they should be stronger, more spiritual, or somehow immune to pain. But suffering is not evidence that something is wrong with you; it is evidence that you are human. Buddhism teaches that pain becomes heavier when we isolate ourselves from it or resist it completely. Healing begins when we learn to sit gently with our experience instead of constantly fighting against it.

Mindfulness plays an important role in this process. Mindfulness does not remove grief, fear, or uncertainty. Instead, it teaches us how to remain present without becoming consumed by these experiences. In moments of suffering, the mind often travels into the past through regret or into the future through anxiety. Mindfulness gently returns us to this moment, this breath, this step. Sometimes peace is not found in solving everything, but in simply being fully present with what is here.

Compassion is equally essential. Buddhist compassion is not pity; it is the willingness to remain connected to suffering with tenderness and courage. This includes compassion for others, but also compassion for ourselves. Many people speak to themselves with harshness during difficult times. A Buddhist approach invites us to ask: Can I offer myself the same kindness I would offer someone I love?

One of the most transformative teachings in Buddhism is impermanence. Everything changes. While this truth can feel painful, it is also deeply hopeful. No feeling, no season of life, and no hardship remains forever. The darkness shifts. The grief softens. The wound slowly learns how to breathe again. Impermanence reminds us that healing is possible even when we cannot yet see it clearly.

In spiritual care work, I have learned that people rarely need perfect answers. More often, they need presence. They need someone willing to sit beside them without trying to fix or explain away their pain. Buddhist chaplaincy is rooted in this sacred presence. Sometimes the most compassionate thing we can offer is silence, listening, and the reassurance that no one has to suffer alone.

The Buddha taught that just as suffering exists, so does the possibility of liberation from suffering. This liberation does not mean escaping life. It means learning to live with wisdom, compassion, and inner freedom even in the midst of life’s uncertainties.

Suffering can break us open, but it can also deepen our capacity for understanding, humility, and love. Through mindfulness, compassion, and spiritual practice, we begin to discover that even within pain, there is the possibility of peace.

For anyone walking through a difficult season right now, may you remember this: you do not need to have all the answers today. Begin with one breath. One moment of kindness toward yourself. One small step toward healing. Even in suffering, you are not alone.